For example, you may start to date a classmate you were platonic with. Eventually, you may spark up a romantic relationship. Then, this special person might teach you a karmic lesson to release spiritual pain from a past life.
You and the individual you’ve met have similar pasts. You both feel like you’ve known each other your whole lives. The person you’re speaking to can sense your feelings. Each of you can predict what the other will say or do. You both know you accept each other unconditionally. It’s easy to lift each other up without “clinging” to each other. You both feel an incredible sense of freedom with one another. You each teach each other necessary life lessons.
A soulmate helps you and eases your pain—they can be a friend or a lover. A karmic relationship challenges you to fix what you didn’t address in a past life. A twin flame is your “other half”—they drive intense spiritual growth for you.
“I invite in a soulmate and friend who will be like a loyal sister to me. " “I call in a karmic guide to teach me a lesson I missed in my past life. " “I welcome my twin flame and all the fiery passion we’ll enjoy. "
Remember, one relationship might prepare you for an even better dynamic. Focus on what a healthy connection looks like to gravitate toward your match. If you release the need to find “the One”, the Universe may send a fun surprise.
If you cling to someone or if you’re worried they may leave you, then you’ll cloud your mind with fear. It’s easier to express love when you’re calm and confident.
Think about the best atmosphere for the kind of soul bond you want. For example, choose a room full of bookshelves for a mentor, a restaurant with romantic lighting for a potential lover, or a special spot in the forest for a friend.
When you both have a lot of fun, you’ll likely see each other’s auras—they may be really bright or colorful. If you do, these auras will probably be unforgettable. Even if the person is a mentor who’s more like a parent or a teacher, you can still make witty observations to strengthen your intellectual bond. Though it might seem counterintuitive, silliness promotes vulnerability because it creates a connection that’s free from judgment.
Learn about each other’s spiritual practices to see if you’re on the same path. If you have different viewpoints, check if you both want to guide each other. Reflect on why you were drawn to each other and what you’re looking for.
Also accept affection from the person you hope to connect to—when you feel their energy, you’ll experience a deeper connection with them. Because of the powerful way you can transfer energy through touch, you can even heal some of a person’s emotional wounds. When you show love and care through touch, focus on reducing a person’s sadness instead of absorbing it. Taking in their pain can spiritually drain you.
Just wait until the moment feels right and let the Universe guide you. You may wish to wait a few months or you might want to express yourself after one heartfelt conversation. Explain how this rare individual has changed you or transformed your outlook. You can also tell them how you’d like to show up for them—maybe you’d like to help them with an important mission.
Let a friend or intimate partner know you want to “soul gaze. " It’s important that they consent to trying the special meditation with you. Deep eye contact will still help you create a meaningful bond with someone new and let them know they have your full attention. Engaged eye contact may also help someone feel an immediate “spark” with you.
